Negotiating Balance

February 13, 2017
How to be focused

How to Stay Disciplined / Focused in the Face of Distraction

I usually  like to start with the definition of a topic that I’m writing about. Today’s topic is Discipline. The definition(s) of discipline are: 1. Punishment 2. Instruction 3. A […]
November 28, 2016
We make choices everyday...

Choices

Choices, we make them everyday. Many of the choices I made in the past were really bad and as a result have reduced the possibility of me having certain things […]
May 20, 2016

I’m an INTROVERT!

You read that right.  I Eldonna Lewis Fernandez, MSgt USAF Retired, Speaker, Author, Harley Rider, person who does events with theatrics and experiential immersion am an introvert.  I think God […]
April 15, 2016

Breakthroughs Before Breakfast

Breakthroughs Before Breakfast Success – what does that look like to you? People think that if they just get rich and famous then everything will be great. However, wherever you […]
March 22, 2016

STOP IT! STOP IT NOW!

Stop It! Stop it now! But how? How do you just stop it when you have fear of something? How do you just stop it when life throws you a […]
March 21, 2016

Take, Take, Take, Take, Take, Take, Take

Taker – Someone who always takes from other people and never gives back. Giver – Someone who gives to another person, usually not seeking a return Many years ago I […]
February 17, 2016

Negotiate the Suck Factor

The suck factor? Yes, the suck factor. What exactly is the suck factor? The word suck in this case is a slang word that means “to be objectionable or inadequate.” […]
January 12, 2016

How to Negotiate Capacity In Your Life – AKA Transition 101

2016 is the “Year of Capacity” for me. Capacity is something we all need in order to be able to function and do the things that we do. The definition […]
May 11, 2015

The Opportunity To Negotiate Confidence in 4 Easy Steps

Negotiation is all about opportunities. How do you negotiate through your life? Do you take risks and opportunities that come your way or do you avoid jumping at those opportunities or […]